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“How good !,” one of my clients exclaimed after a four-hour analysis of the wardrobe, “There are many things left. I was afraid that you would come and say: why did you buy so many terrible rags, where were your eyes. It turns out that I can still choose clothes, right? ”

Honestly, I do not think that a good result of parsing a wardrobe with a stylist is when there are a lot of things left. The main thing is that everything that remains is relevant, compatible and suitable for current needs, and not for the whole variety of "outings" that "cannot be ruled out." If you spend 90% of the time on the playground, it means that the images should be for the playground, and not for theoretically possible ones “what if my friends and I go to the sea, then I’ll lose weight there, and then we decide to go to the opera house, and at the theater they suddenly give an Oscar, and it cannot be ruled out that it will be me who will hand it, and not Scarlett Johansson, and then I will need this dress. ” But now this is not about that.

I feel very sad when a woman sees an appeal to a stylist not as a choice and purchase of a useful service, but as a sacred appeal to an inexorable higher power that will issue a verdict: have you been dressed with taste all your life, before turning to the great and mighty, or vegetated in a humiliating swamp of bad taste. I call it "overestimating, underestimating." If the result of turning to a stylist (in general, an ordinary person) is endowed with such a huge, galactic size, meaning, then, first of all, there is a not very healthy, but very understandable defensive reaction: to find out who the judges are, and when they find out somehow to expose these “judges”. “What can this stylist (ha ha) be there, all of them are charlatans”, “Yes, you look at them yourself, forever in a white shirt, you can’t come up with anything else”, “Well, soooo dressed up?” Well, thank you, I have a serious job, I'm not this one like him, a stylist. " Overestimating the importance of the question to the point where we can no longer breathe, we begin to hastily devalue the one who will give us the answer to this question (because, I repeat, breathing is painful and sometimes impossible). Overestimating - underestimating.

I would like to say: what nonsense! Well, what a trouble, a big deal. Well, they will tell you that you are not the most successful in choosing images, they will help you choose more suitable and interesting ones. Okay? It would be good ... if it were not for the strangle of a stereotype absorbed into mother’s milk: a real woman should (!) Be able to dress, but in no case should she spend too much money (otherwise - a “shopaholic”). A real woman should (!) Have a natural taste, but in no case be engaged in its development all her free time (otherwise - "dummy", "semblance"). A real man, on the contrary, is freed from heavy duty to look well-groomed and dressed not in the fact that he fell out of the closet first, but he is ordered to feed his family at the same time (otherwise - “Alphonse”) and not spend too much time at work (otherwise - “robot” ”, Or maybe a“ reveler ”), emotionally support your woman (otherwise -“ cracker ”), but never express your feelings yourself (otherwise -“ weakling ”), and so on. As if, in addition to six billion living men and women, consisting of flesh, blood and a neural network, there are also “real women” and “real men” on our planet. Nobody ever saw them in the eye, but everyone knows the rules written for these "real" ones, and with varying degrees of despair, they try to live by these completely impossible rules.

“What kind of woman is this if she doesn’t know how to choose a sweater for her skirt,” as if “real women” are asking us. Yes, normal, good, sweet, beautiful. The most ordinary woman. She has no time and desire day and night to form flawless sets of clothes for herself, which, maybe, raises three children, or maybe writes a doctoral dissertation, or maybe does it at the same time. Or does not write and does not raise, it is her business and her choice. But it is not at all necessary for all women to be interested in fashion and style so deeply that they always know how to dress themselves. Now no one is ashamed of the fact that she can’t draw or sing, or dance (and there were times when without such skills no young lady would have shown her nose without her girl’s boudoir). Turning to a music or drawing teacher, no one blushes to the roots of his hair, because he sang and painted for the last time in kindergarten (and that is bad). And to be ashamed of the fact that clothes are not the first priority in your life, or to wait for a stylist’s verdict about your appearance, like a final judgment (“am I a trembling creature or a right”) - this is also not necessary at all. ”

Spiridonova Nadezhda Viktorovna

Psychologist. Specialist from the site b17.ru

So ask him what is HIS more sexual in taste) Everyone’s tastes are different.
My ex, for example, liked a white T-shirt / shirt / top and so that without a bra. With my 3rd size, it looked impressive))) This outfit is naturally not for prying eyes. Sometimes he wore this for him, not every day of course.

shirt shorts. pants if it's cold. everything suits me

It’s not in your clothes, but in its potency. Send nafik. It won’t get any better.

Bullshit. He wants to - strips, from any initial state. He just wants to feel like a padishah. So that by his arrival they would be worried and hotly change clothes. Does it correspond?

Bullshit. . He just wants to feel like a padishah. So that by his arrival they would be worried and hotly change clothes. ?

and why we are always obliged to please them. let them rejoice that someone gives them sex at all

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let them rejoice that someone gives them sex at all

What kind of sexuality he needs, go naked, if a girl is sexy, no matter how much clutter she puts on herself, she will still remain sexy.

ABOUT! Author, you are not a real girl, but a plastic androgyne.
The real girl meets her beloved on stilettos with pompoms, a playful miniskirt and a T-shirt two sizes smaller and from the neckline to the nipples. And yes, they still put on fishnet stockings, well, this is for the very true, it's too early for you.

But it seems to me this collective farm is a velor suit. You can dress comfortably, but more feminine, some breeches, a tight-fitting T-shirt, more urban like it will be

Well, let him buy it “sexier,” since he’s smart. Show him a compliment from AP. And then the price for it.
And if you do not live alone, but with mom-dad, so let him even roll his lip.

Right And you can give not just for nothing, but for gifts and money!

When my husband started walking at home in comfortable clothes (a shirt and sweatshirts, clean, not worn), I immediately began to realize that you can really get rid of a person who dresses “as I want and go home”.
So I think that you need to dress a) varied! (Even the combination and stockings after some time will bother and become non-sexual) b) beautiful.

Even when I don’t wear a velor suit at home, it’s ooooooooo very ugly.

But it seems to me this collective farm is a velor suit. You can dress comfortably, but more feminine, some breeches, a tight-fitting T-shirt, more urban like it will be

A third of the house in synthetic velor is for those who save on heating.

just a comfortable dress made of cotton or viscose, a long shirt (like a dress), shorts and a shirt

An interesting guy, of course)))) He stopped wanting))))))
Well, dress as you like!) And by the time a guy arrives, a couple of times a week, you can somehow and not dress very much at home (as usual) .. I don’t say that you need to dress up, no, but just get dressed somehow beautiful, why not? :)

Ask the guy how to dress, what's the problem?
And sheep screaming that if they wanted to love, don’t listen, they are sheep, not peasants, in principle they are not given to understand what they are writing about.
And if you want to be desired, then use the sports suit only for its intended purpose, buy skirts and shorts, shorts, stockings and high heels (at least wear them only for a meeting), tight tops and T-shirts.
Yes damn same leggings
On holidays, you can wear a corset or cut from a sex shop
That’s all, but they got the problem out of nothing.
And before you take the sheep seriously, remember how many such sports costumes have you seen in erotic and porn films?

I have a variety of home clothes, and a sports suit and a dressing gown and shorts and skirts, my husband never complained, everything suits me, and wants me no matter what I wear

Ask the guy how to dress, what's the problem?
And sheep screaming that if they wanted to love, don’t listen, they are sheep, not peasants, in principle they are not given to understand what they are writing about.
And if you want to be desired, then use the sports suit only for its intended purpose, buy skirts and shorts, shorts, stockings and high heels (at least wear them only for a meeting), tight tops and T-shirts.
Yes damn same leggings
On holidays, you can wear a corset or cut from a sex shop
That’s all, but they got the problem out of nothing.
And before you take the sheep seriously, remember how many such sports costumes have you seen in erotic and porn films?

Well, in general, yes .. a velor suit is completely non-sexual .. And for some reason you look at the pictures in the social. networks ..home .. So there through one in these velor suits .. the same .. the difference is only in color) It's hot too! As if in a blanket, it seems to me to wrap up .. But if on the topic .. then you need to besiege the guy. return it to its place .. so that it doesn’t bury it .. but then you look .. what a bold one)

Short stretch shorts and his t-shirts, so he tries to take them off me all the time)). And high leggings, maybe legs freeze-French temperament.

I wear knitted breeches at home, they are tight-fitting, but very soft, they do not press anywhere. Top - a t-shirt on a figure. Or wear a short knitted dress. A tracksuit as a home wear is a collective farm.

I don’t understand, are you dating or is a guy coming just to have fun?

But it seems to me this collective farm is a velor suit. You can dress comfortably, but more feminine, some breeches, a tight-fitting T-shirt, more urban like it will be

I don’t understand, are you dating or is a guy coming just to have fun?

I used to wear shorts with t-shirts in the summer, sweatpants with t-shirts in the winter. Recently, she dumped me on femininity, bought a short knitted dress, and she herself realized what kind of antisex all these trainings were. The dress is also convenient in that it is easy to remove or lift,)

Dressing is quick, undressing is even faster.

m-yeah! Breeches are not a collective farm at all.

But it seems to me this collective farm is a velor suit. You can dress comfortably, but more feminine, some breeches, a tight-fitting T-shirt, more urban like it will be

Why collective farm? Is such a suit also a collective farm http://garderob.md/components/com_virtuemart/shop_image/product/_________________4da0269c0ac6b.jpg?

Well, let him buy it “sexier,” since he’s smart. Show him a compliment from AP. And then the price for it.
And if you do not live alone, but with mom-dad, so let him even roll his lip.

I also can't stand velor costumes, fu.
I wear leggings (they are skin-tight, which is very sexy, the husband himself says), and the shirts are different, also skin-tight. Sometimes I wear dresses, shorts. Sometimes naked, if it’s warm) So throw this velor suit, I would also want you to replace your husband

this is not a collective farm. it is a village 20 thousand km from Moscow. ha ha)))

Why collective farm? Is such a suit also a collective farm http://garderob.md/components/com_virtuemart/shop_image/product/_________________4da0269c0ac6b.jpg?

Well, Moscow probably has its own fashion. Skirts to the priests, pantyhose in fishnets, stilettos and so on)

so do you imagine chic? haha civilized people have long been wearing Casual (casual) - casual wear, in the European tradition - the type of clothing, the style of clothing in which emphasis is placed on convenience. But velor costumes are casual.

You just don’t know what fashionable and beautiful breeches you can buy now.

fall down
if you do not live together and only meet, then you must walk naked naked at home
where do you go there
from the bunk to the kitchen and back
what for costume then

What is non-Chinese casual?)

http://st1.diets.ru/data/cache/2013mar/24/13/1335267_57248-700x500.jpg
look here. Very beautiful and feminine

http://1lady.net/images/uploads/9e3642ef7d25b64a7cbc7da7aa383ff9.jpg you can look good at home, believe me.

http://fashiony.ru/page.php? > Something like this)))

http://st1.diets.ru/data/cache/2013mar/24/13/1335267_57248-700x500.jpg
look here. Very beautiful and feminine

Guesthttp: //st1.diets.ru/data/cache/2013mar/24/13/1335267_57248-700x500.jpg
look here. Very beautiful and feminine
How does this differ from a velor suit? He wants to look sexy and wear dresses.

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